What You Need to Know Before Your Couple Shoot

Couples shoots and engagement sessions are always a blast, but I’ll be the first to admit that they can seem intimidating if you’ve never done one before and to be honest, that’s one of the reasons we include them in most of our wedding packages that we offer to our couples. You might be wondering what to expect, what to wear, how to pose, any number of things. I am here to reassure you that we at Seventh Arrow will make sure that your shoot goes smoothly and that you have as much information as possible before arriving. I’ve compiled a few helpful tips to put you at ease and ensure that you have an enjoyable and memorable experience.

Come prepared

If you’re reading this blog post, you’re already on your way to being prepared for shoot day! Knowing what to expect is the simplest way to quell nerves and build confidence. I recommend that you make a list of everything you need to bring, wear, and do for the shoot day so when you arrive you are calm and ready to get started. Don’t worry at all, we will walk you through all of it in this blog!

When thinking about what to bring, consider what items you want in the photos, such as a second outfit, personal accessories, or props to help you and your partner tell your story. For some couples this is a food you both love, a special bottle of wine, or even your beloved pet! If you do want your pet included in the shoot, however, just make sure to bring someone to watch your furry friend when they are not in the shot. I always bring a blanket of some sort for you, but its always good to see your blanket in photos then have that memory with that blanket while you both are snuggled up on the couch with it.

Choosing a Location

It is really important that you feel comfortable with the location and that it “feels like you” If you have location that is near and dear to your story, please don’t hesitate to tell me about it. I am true believer in telling your story in a way that is meaningful to the two of you but also remember that the session is about you as a couple and not where you are.

If you need help with deciding on a location and are in Buffalo, feel free to head to my blog for location suggestions above.

Look good & feel good

A lot of my brides choose to get their hair and makeup done professionally before their session. If you do choose to go this route, make sure that you schedule your glam early enough in the day that you can relax and enjoy it without rushing to get to the shoot on time. Smaller details are also super important, like having manicured nails to show off your ring or making sure you have the right socks to match your outfit. I recommend setting out both your clothes and accessories a day or two before the session to make sure you have everything you need.

In terms of what to wear, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable in your clothes. Wear something you feel good in that lets your personality shine through. I love to offer the opportunity for an outfit change halfway through the session; it allows us to get a few different looks and feels within the session while maximizing our time together. Many couples opt for one dressier option and one more casual option. You may need to change in your car depending on where we’re shooting, so just be prepared for the adventure! Don’t worry, we will stand guard!

Best colors or combos: Emerald Green really goes with anything, maroon for the guys, light blue and yellow, grey, navy and white, black with black (be sure to match your blacks), white and black (wanna really spice things up try bride in black and groom in white)

To help with outfit choices we have made a Pinterest board with direct links to the outfit piece that you can look at and get an idea of what looks colors and outfits work best in front of the camera

Be present

It’s normal to get caught up in your own head, especially when you’re in a situation that may be new or unfamiliar to you. Being the center of attention can be nerve-wracking, and you may start thinking things like “does my hair look okay?” or “is this a good angle for me?” However, if you start focusing on looking perfect or nailing every pose, you’re going to end up looking uncomfortable and stiff in your photos. The best way to look and feel natural is to simply take a deep breath and let it happen. Focus on how comfortable it feels to be with your partner, and allow yourself to enjoy this experience you’re having together. Your session is an opportunity to capture the special bond you have as a couple, so just focus on that and I’ll take care of the rest.

Trust your photographer

When I say I’ll take care of the rest, I mean it! If you show up prepared and relaxed then all that’s left is to let me work my magic. My job is to direct you in a way that helps you relax, feel natural, and be your true comfortable self in front of my lens. You don’t need to practice poses, study Pinterest pins, or overthink how you look. Again, it’s normal to be nervous, but rest assured that I will make sure that the end result is something you love.

If you have any questions, ask!

I want to do everything I can to make your session the best experience possible, so if you have any questions that I haven’t covered in this post please reach out! All questions are valid, and chances are someone else has probably asked me the same one before. As your photographer I am here to put you at ease and will do whatever I can to help you in your preparations.

xoxo, Seventh Arrow

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